TWU's Professor Melinda Dewsbury writes over 100 poems with her mother throughout pandemic

"The poetry exercise has created a really beautiful form of communication between us, especially because we can’t see each other."
 
— Melinda Dewsbury, Assistant Professor and Associate Dean of Global Education


Since the early days of the pandemic in March 2020, Melinda Dewsbury, who teaches global literature at Trinity Western University in Langley B.C., has been writing and exchanging poetry with her mother, Diana Caldwell, 72, who lives in Chatsworth, near Owen Sound, Ontario.

Over the past year, this cross-country, mother-daughter exchange has produced over 100 poems.

It all started on the very first day of working from home, Professor Dewsbury recounts. “Last March was really beautiful,” she said, “I remember because I was sitting outside for the first couple of weeks to do my work.”

“I was sitting in my backyard just feeling so confused. I think everyone was feeling confused and shocked.”

As an English and writing instructor for over 20 years, Professor Dewsbury did what she loved: she started to write a poem. And as the pandemic stay-at-home orders stretched from weeks into months, so did Professor Dewsbury’s poetry project.


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Soon she was writing a poem almost every day from her home in B.C.

After about a week into the habit, Professor Dewsbury invited her mom, in Ontario, to join her in journaling together in poetry. The two began regularly trading freshly scripted poetry, while living on opposite ends of the country.

“We look forward to each other. Every day, or every week, we would anticipate a new poem.”

Anticipation became a highlight in the process. “Sometimes we’d message each other, ‘It’s not ready yet, but there’s a poem brewing!’”

Mom and daughter find a new way of relating

Professor Dewsbury and her mother found that learning about each other through poetry and sharing their daily journey through the pandemic brought them together “in a new way.”

“We’ve always been very close,” Professor Dewsbury said. “But poetry opens your spirit and your heart and your mind—in a way that nothing else can.”

“So, sharing together has enabled us to see a little bit deeper into each other, and to really appreciate the depth of who we are…and to value both the similarities and the differences in each other.”

Professor Dewsbury and her mom Diana traded poems over Facebook Messenger, and sometimes email. “Sometimes we would put it together with a visual,” Professor Dewsbury said.

“The poetry exercise has created a really beautiful form of communication between us, especially because we can’t see each other.”

“It’s been a way to really keep us close and share our hearts with each other,” she said.

A solo writing project would not have had the same outcome, Professor Dewsbury noted.

As she put it, “I think that sending it back and forth to each other had a different effect than if I had written the poems for myself only, and not shared them with anybody.”

“It’s created a deeper vulnerability,” she observed. “It’s helped me to discover a deeper vulnerability that is such a healthy part of how God made us to be.”

Writing has been a kind of wellness practice for Professor Dewsbury, “an exercise that connects me with things outside of my own mind.”

“It’s a kind of therapy for yourself because you are tapping into your wholeness. You’re tapping into your heart, mind, soul, and your body, your physical world around you.”

The simple practice of deep observation can shift one’s mind from thinking about worry or being sidetracked by anxiety, Professor Dewsbury said. “It gives you a new focus.”

Over 100 poems and continuing

To this day, Professor Dewsbury and her mother write regularly, although less frequently than every day as before. Professor Dewsbury’s inspiration often comes from nature. She is naturally curious and enjoys research, and often a poem is birthed from a study of living things in her environment.

One time, Professor Dewsbury witnessed an elderly couple hugging in a Safeway parking lot. It inspired a poem.

“It just struck me that I hadn’t seen anyone hugging each other for so long. And it was a long genuine comforting hug. It struck me as so powerful.”

Ideas for poetry writing, by Professor Dewsbury​

For anyone looking to start writing poetry, Professor Dewsbury offers these tips:

1. Start by reading poetry

It’s good to read poetry, Professor Dewsbury advises. “Poetry is vast,” she said. “I highly recommend classic Western poets, but also to read some poetry from around the world, which we can access in translation.” Professor Dewsbury said that every summer when she teaches her global literature course, she receives new inspiration, new ways of thinking and poetic techniques.

“We’re reading Japanese poets, African poets, and ancient Vietnamese poets and contemporary Iranian poets,” she said of her poetry class. “Collecting more and more types of poetic inspiration can really give you confidence that you don’t have to follow poetic form, like rhyme and rules.”

2. Begin by playing with your senses

As a poet, Professor Dewsbury has a knack for combining sensory information. “Right now I might write about the birdsong,” she said. “But—could I capture the birdsong with taste, or with colour?”

“Poetry allows you to cross the senses, and when you do that it begins to free so much of your imagination.”

3. Observe something very closely

You can write a poem about anything, Professor Dewsbury affirms. When seeking inspiration, she challenges writers to study something really closely. “[Ask] what do you see?” She also challenges writers to search for background information. “Research something you take for granted, and see if you can find deep meaning in that.”

Professor Dewsbury finds that observation can solve a writer’s block. When Professor Dewsbury wants to write but hasn’t found the spark, she will take time to pay close attention to the environment around her, and "observe in all my senses.”

“Eventually something will stir and give me meaning,” she said.
 
 
Melinda Dewsbury has been writing poems since her first year of university, while taking a creative writing class at TWU. Her professor at the time encouraged her talent, and from that class onward Professor Dewsbury has been writing all her adult life. Since 2003, Professor Dewsbury has been teaching at TWU in the areas of foundational English and creative writing. She is currently the Assistant Professor and Associate Dean of Global Education. Professor Dewsbury credits her mother Diana for instilling in her a love of poetry and literature.


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Here is just a small selection of pandemic poems by mother and daughter Diana Caldwell and Melinda Dewsbury:
 
 
—March 23, 2020—

EXPECTATIONS

How can I build this web?

It is my instinct

My work of mind and hand.

Spinning here and there.

Interrupted.

"Adapt your silk to this or this or this,"

they say.

Once thin for one need

Sticky smooth beaded thick

Patterned for one but not another.

I am a spider.

Thwarted.

- Melinda
 
 
—April 1, 2020—

PIXELS

My eyes are fixed on

A series of squares

Boxed-in humanity

Defined and confined

Geometrically

The mobile beauty of messy life

Made linear

Pixelated

Preserved like a jar of pickles

Suspended in time.

- Melinda

 
—May 1, 2020—​

DELUGE

She passes the days

and nights

in her small apartment -

isolated,

incarcerated

by the invisible, lurking threat.

Her only human contacts

(excluding by 'phone)

are the workers bringing

meals

....mail

      ....laundry.

"Darlene brought me some groceries

(I hadn't seen her for two weeks)

and when I saw her in the foyer

I just burst into tears!

(I'm not a crier...)

I cried,

      and cried,

             and couldn't stop -

I wanted so badly to give her a hug!

I was so embarrassed!"

Alone-ness,

      an invisible wound

              that severs souls.

- Diana
 

—May 10, 2020, Mother's Day—​

GENETICS

You wear your mothering in

Your eyes

Their hazel-green hue

the genetic stamp

A history of mothers,

A record of people now only story or

name or a line on a chart

But your story is here

Now

In your eyes

I've watched child-like fervour

Curiosity

Brilliance

Like glimmering water in summer sun

Deep shining pools in all its

beauty and pain

Crinkly riverbanks pouring out tears

of uncontrollable laughter

Worry and fear like the murky stream

in early spring,

The gravelly bed obscured

by sediment

Rapids of relief releasing in your smile,

lines worn down by both joy and grief

And your upward gaze to

 the firmament

Seeking and beseeching and praising

the One who sees all.

Now in my mirror I glimpse

a different colour looking back

But some of your story

Spilled into mine

Expressions and movements

and animation

and I gladly wear

These gifts of your mothering.

-I love you, my mom

- Melinda
 
 
MOTHERING

Louise,

the Banty hen

didn't suffer fools lightly

when it came to her chicks.

After all,

she had spent 21 days

"quarantined"

to bring them to the hatch!

They were so tiny,

so vulnerable to predators

prowling the farm premises -

Why, even a gust of wind

could spell their demise.

But really, Louise -

nesting on the highest beam in the barn?

I understand.

There were times,

when I longed to gather you

all together,

hide you from all the dangers

in the big, bad world,

secrete you in a secluded space,

but eventually,

you would have suffocated

under my wings.

- Diana
 


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